Written by Dawn Rutan
A couple weeks ago I was watching Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix for the millionth time. One particular quote often catches my attention. When Harry is feeling alone in his fight against the enemy, Voldemort, Luna Lovegood tells him, “I suppose that’s how he wants you to feel… If I were You-know-who, I’d want you to feel cut off from everyone else. ‘Cause if it’s just you alone, you’re not as much of a threat.”
I can identify with that feeling. One of our enemy’s primary tools is to make us believe we’re alone in the fight for truth, good, and holiness. The “roaring lion” looks for the weak and isolated members to pick off (1 Peter 5:8). The Apostle Paul also reminded his readers that separation creates opportunity for sin:
“…We are members one of another. Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil” (Ephesians 4:25-27).
“Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control” (1 Corinthians 7:5).
I recently read All the Places to Go, by John Ortberg, and something he said made a lot of sense. Sometimes when we make a big decision, we suffer from “buyers regret.” The reason for this is that we start to compare all the negative features of what we chose with all the positive features of what we did not choose. This doesn’t just apply to purchases, but to schools, marriage, career, etc. And it occurred to me that it also applies to our self-perception. We know our own sin and weakness all too well and we often start comparing our worst features with what little we can see of the people around us. Pretty soon we’re thinking “Everybody else seems to have it all together, so I must be the one who’s really messed up!” We’ve created our own sense of isolation, and the enemy capitalizes on it to bring us even further down. (Check out Elijah in 1 Kings 19.)
Comparing ourselves with others is never a good thing. It will only lead to pride or shame, depending on who we’re looking at. “Not that we dare to classify or compare ourselves with some of those who are commending themselves. But when they measure themselves by one another and compare themselves with one another, they are without understanding… For it is not the one who commends himself who is approved, but the one whom the Lord commends” (2 Corinthians 10:12, 18). And the fact is that God commends His children even when they do screw up, because His love and grace are greater than our sin. His love never changes. We may think we have cut ourselves off, but He’s just waiting for us to look up and see Him still standing there. Christians are really never alone, no matter what we may think or feel. Ideally, we should know the loving support of being in frequent communion with our fellow believers. But even if everyone else fails us, judges us, turns away, or persecutes us, the Father is still on our side.
Mark Gignilliat wrote in Christianity Today:
“We face trials and temptations of all sorts, and God uses them to test our faith. No one knew this to be true more than Jesus. And no one invites us into the joyous dangers of faith more graciously than him, either. We don’t wrestle alone. He is with us, and countless faithful believers have gone before us… The life of faith is one of continual wrestling, where our faith butts up against the troubles of our experience and the sovereign God who controls all things. But the work of Christ, True Israel, assures us that we never wrestle alone or in vain. We may get injured in the ring, but our wounds—like Jacob’s thrown hip—will never become fatal to faith’s final security. God won’t allow it.” http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2015/december/when-god-hits-below-belt.html
© 2015 Dawn Rutan. The views stated may or may not reflect the beliefs of the pastor or leadership of Dulin’s Grove Church.
