Written by Dawn Rutan
I’ll admit I’m in a battle against apathy right now. There are sometimes difficult circumstances at work that make me want to throw in the towel. (Yes, I’m from the generation whose mantra is “Whatever!”) When you’re powerless to change what other people or organizations do, it feels like there are two choices: 1) get frustrated and angry, or 2) become complacent and determine that it doesn’t really matter. I spent many years being frustrated, and found that it did nothing but interrupt my peace and my sleep. So I’ve gone the opposite direction and become apathetic. That doesn’t always work, but it seems easier anyway. Caring too much just causes pain.
I suppose a lot of it stems from disillusionment, such as with politics: “It doesn’t matter who you vote for since they’re all liars, so why vote?” The same thing happens on a smaller scale with businesses, churches, and even families. If your opinion doesn’t carry any weight, what’s the point in trying to create change? At one time I was asked to join a church committee because my educational background was “needed.” I quickly found out that the committee had no authority and it didn’t matter what I had to contribute.
Desiring God recently published an interesting post on apathy, How God Cares for Those Who Don’t, by Paul Maxwell. Although he comes at it from a different angle, he brings out some good points. One is that God agrees that some things are trivial and not worth getting worked up about. Arguing over the color of the carpet in the sanctuary is unnecessary and not honoring to God. A second point is that when we find our security in God’s love rather than man’s opinion, we are free to tackle issues that really are important, and we can “stir up one another to love and good works” (Hebrews 10:24 ESV).
So I’ve been thinking of some questions that might help clarify how we should respond to some of the circumstances we face from time to time.
1) Does this issue matter to God? If it’s a question of salvation, sin, safety, or ministry, you can be sure it matters. If it is about personal preferences, there’s a good chance it is not all that important in the grand scheme of things. Most issues probably fall somewhere in the middle. As Robert Pierce said, “Let my heart be broken with the things that break the heart of God.”
2) Does it directly affect me or my loved ones (which could include church family)? This question has to be considered cautiously. Although a typhoon in Japan may not directly impact me, it is still important and a response might be required. At the same time, we all have limited time and resources and we can’t do everything we might like to do. Joining the PTA at your child’s school may be more effective than campaigning for national education reform. In some of his correspondence, C.S. Lewis made the comment that the rapid availability of international news may do more harm than good as people become more concerned with what’s happening on the other side of the world than in their own neighborhood (and he wrote that before the computer age!).
3) How much influence might I have over the outcome? Not being very “politically minded,” I tend to think that it doesn’t do much good for John Smith to write to his congressman, unless John happens to represent a large body of voters or special interest groups. However, every situation and every person is different, so there could be a myriad of factors that determine one’s level of influence.
Those are some practical questions, but there are some other biblical principles that should not be forgotten:
“God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong” (1 Corinthians 1:27). Whether it’s stuttering Moses, Gideon’s tiny army, or Elijah vs. the prophets of Baal, God uses who He wants regardless of their qualifications. And when He does, He’s the One who gets the glory for the outcome (1:31).
“Share in suffering as a good soldier of Christ Jesus. No soldier gets entangled in civilian pursuits, since his aim is to please the one who enlisted him” (2 Timothy 2:3-4). Our aim should be to please God no matter how long or hard the journey might be. Paul continued his ministry from prison because the consequences of giving up were just too great (Philippians 1:21-25).
“Praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints” (Ephesians 6:18). Some battles can only be fought with unceasing prayer. The real battle is not against flesh and blood (6:12).
I know from my own experience that the things I often obsess over are trivial matters that should be forgotten. I’m a recovering perfectionist and I have to remind myself that most people aren’t going to care about some of the details I see. Along with that, I’m certain that the enemy likes to keep us distracted with the nonessentials so that the more important things get neglected. The issues that I most wish to avoid are ones that will require a lot of work and a long time to resolve, and I’m not eager to invest myself without the assurance of a positive outcome. I suspect a lot of us fall prey to the “let it be someone else’s problem” mindset. Even though I won’t be here (on this earth, in this job, or in this church) forever, I do bear some responsibility in providing for the future through good stewardship of time, money, people, property, and the environment.
I’m not sure I’ve resolved any of the issues foremost in my mind as I write this, but I do know which ones require further thinking.
“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect” (Romans 12:2).
